Over the last two to three years I have been dreaming about a man that I admire and wanted to become in a relationship with. Even a friend that I knew that red tarot card said that this was the man. In the dreams the man was very forthcoming to me involve me in things that were very personal and yet just a month ago he married another woman. I really feel betrayed by my dreams on this man and don't understand why for 3 years there was positive input about him and being in a relationship with him through my dreams
Dreams can often be complex and may not always reflect literal reality. It's important to remember that dreams are a reflection of our subconscious thoughts, desires, and fears. In this case, it seems that you have admired and desired a relationship with this man for a long time.
The fact that you had positive dreams about him for three years could indicate that he symbolizes certain qualities or aspirations that you sought in a partner. It's possible that your dreams were encouraging you to explore those qualities within yourself or to seek similar qualities in potential partners.
The fact that the man married another woman in real life may represent a sense of disappointment or betrayal. It's natural to feel this way, as your dreams may have created certain expectations or desires. However, it's important to remember that dreams are not always predictive or reflective of reality.
Instead, try to focus on understanding what qualities attracted you to this person and explore if those qualities can still be found in other potential partners or within yourself. Dreams can serve as valuable insights into our own desires and ambitions, but it's important to approach them with an open and discerning mind.